Some people seem to have an innate gift for attracting love to them without making the slightest effort. All of these people have several things in common. Here are our tips to help you attract love.
Do you like to!
You cannot love a person properly if you do not love yourself either. This fact is very easily verified. People who attract love easily are people who trust her, who like themselves (in a healthy way, without being in narcissism) who are aware of their qualities and who know how to put them forward. Several psychological theories believe that the relationships we have with others are similar to those we have with ourselves.
Express your personality
To attract love, don’t be afraid to express your real personality (through your clothes or makeup for example). If you are “not like the others” or if you have tastes and opinions different from the majority, it does not matter at all. It is even a plus since you will shine with your originality.
Expand your business circle and find your passion
Passionate people are people who naturally attract love. When they talk about their passion, they talk with their guts. The emotional takes up a lot of space and very easily affects the people around them. It is often interesting, even touching, to hear someone passionate about their favorite activity speak.
Don’t be stingy in love
“True love is selfless and fearless. He pours on the object of his affection, without demanding anything in return. Her joy is in the joy of giving ”said Florence Scovel Shinn, a great American actress of the 20th century
Contrary to what one might think, it is not by seeking love and by multiplying meetings that one finds, but by giving love around oneself, to one’s family, loved ones, or even acquaintances.
However, be careful, giving love does not mean “letting oneself be trod on”. You should be able to do only what you want.
Have a positive attitude
Pessimistic people scare away or – in any case – do not attract love. We naturally reach out to people who can bring us happiness, not anxiety. Smile, see the glass half full and try to bring out the positive in every situation of daily life! You will be all the more attractive!