How To Be Irresistible To Men: 9 Tips For You

You are already smart and attractive, and these tips for becoming irresistible to men will definitely help you attract the right kind of man to you.

Stop being needy

Tell me if you’ve ever come across this conversation between two guys:

“Man, Jaqueline likes to be with me 24 hours a day. She is always by my side and never leaves me alone for a second. Especially when she needs me emotionally. Kid, I love it.”


Well, that’s because no man in the world is attracted to a woman who is a mess.

And by a mess, I mean emotionally.

Control yourself, girl.

Men are not stupid.

They can spot a needy girl a mile away, so you’d better start working on that emotional desperation of yours.

Don’t Pay Too Much Attention to Him

So, you’ve just met an incredibly handsome guy who’s sensitive and kind too.

What do you do?

Well, most women would give him their full attention.

But so much attention always puts the guy under pressure, forcing him to give the girl the same attention.

Don’t be like that.

Be more you.

If you like him, don’t overdo it with your emotions.

Keep a safe distance from him and show him that you’re a little out of his reach.

But don’t overdo it; give him hope that the two of you can be together if he tries a little harder.

This will instantly make you more attractive to him.

Be graceful

Use your body language to your advantage.

Sit up straight, don’t squat, lean forward a little when talking to him, maintain constant eye contact, smile, keep your chin up, and occasionally accidentally brush your hands on his hands or shoulders.

This sends him a subconscious message that you are available to him.

Be feminine

Well, if you don’t want a feminine man in your life, why would a man want a masculine woman in his?

Let him see your feminine side; it just makes you look more attractive.

Many men prefer to date feminine women over tough ones, who display a more masculine personality.

Be confident

An attractive outfit is nice, but it still needs more.

The rest is really up to you and how comfortable and confident you feel in your clothes and how you look.

If you’re nervous or uncomfortable, your body language will give you away and any man will lose his charm in a matter of minutes.

Confidence is attractive and tells men you’re not an emotional mess, but an independent, attractive woman.

Take good care of him

When thinking about how to be irresistible to men, this item should never be forgotten.

Many men don’t openly accept this, but they like it when the women in their lives take care of them.

I’m not talking about replacing his mother.


It means stepping out of your comfort zone, asking how he is, taking care of him when he is sick, etc.

Talk About Things You Both Like

Keeping a conversation interesting can sometimes be difficult as there is a very limited range of topics you can have with people you barely know.

So why not talk about things he or you are passionate about?

Science supports the fact that men like women in love; helps sell the myth that these women are also better in bed.

Be present

Well, physically you’re obviously sitting next to him.

But I’m talking about being mentally present.

For example, don’t look distracted and distant when he tells you how he celebrated his dog’s birthday.

This shows that you have little interest in things that are important to him, which will obviously make him lose his charm.

Be present, agile, sharp, and witty.

He will love it.

Be playful

Well, because basically, nobody likes to date a boring person.

You have to offer him something he likes, and an overwhelming majority of men like women who are playful and aren’t afraid to hide that side of them.

It shows that you’re not uptight or unsympathetic, which makes you more irresistible, plus the fact that they can have the most pointless conversations with you without being judged for it.

A woman who is fun, playful, and goofy from time to time is super cute, according to men! So, with all that said, do you understand all the tricks and tips on how to be irresistible to men?