How to choose between two men?

How to choose between two men?


When you love two men, it’s never easy to choose between them. Each of them has their own good and bad qualities, but in the end, you can’t have a real romantic relationship with both of them.

Of course, it’s not at all easy to choose between two men. One of them can be hurt if he learns that you have chosen the other for example. But I hope that with these tips you will be able to find a solution to minimize the problems.


Choose the one that does not make you suffer

If one of the two men is causing you pain, physically or mentally, your choice will be simple. Choose the other man. You can never be truly happy with a man who hurts you.

Even though this man is full of other qualities, you don’t want a man who belittles you. You want a man who will value you and love you.

Do any of them have a big problem?

By big problem here I mean something that makes you never compatible or never really in love.

For example, for me, a big problem is a man who smokes. I could never really love him. But there are other examples. Does he refuse to travel but do you like to travel? Can’t he get over his ex?

Choose the man who knows how to live a good life

When you go out with someone it is because, in the end, you want to make them your man, your husband for life.

It is therefore very important to choose the man who knows best how to live his life. Take the one who knows how to solve and overcome small everyday problems. You need a man who can take care of you and help you in the future.

Compare their qualities

Start by making a list of the qualities you want in the man in your life. Once this list is complete you can continue by making a list of the qualities of the two men that you like.

Compare your list with that of the two men and choose the one that best meets your expectations.

You can look through a quality list and choose the one that suits you the best. For example, I could choose fun, charming, determined, positive.

Do they remember the little details?

If you come to this it is because you really have a hard time choosing between these two men. Another idea is to look at the small details of each one. When both seem perfect, you can choose the one that remembers the little details the best.

By small details I mean the one who remembers your birthday, the one who knows your favorite color, your favorite dish. The man who remembers these details best is surely a man who loves you very much and wants to do everything to keep you and impress you.

Can you live without one of them?

Imagine having to make an impossible choice: Choose between one of these men and never, NEVER see the other again. No second chance, no possibility of changing his mind, no time to say goodbye to him.

Which of the men do you choose?

Are you compatible?

Unfortunately, not everyone is compatible with everyone. Even if your love seems real right now, it may not be later because you are not compatible.

You like to talk together

There is nothing more boring than a fat blank because no one knows what to say to the other. It happens when two people can’t talk to each other because they don’t have the same conversation topics or nothing in common.

If you want to know how to choose between two men, take the one who has the most in common with you. You don’t want to spend the next few years of your life living in awkward and embarrassing silence.