Love is truly something wonderful, and unique to everyone at the same time. It can give the impression that time stands still, or on the contrary, make it pass much too quickly! But there is a big difference between love, and true Love, the one with a big “A”! True love is not ordinary, oh no. And it doesn’t appear often, that’s what makes it so authentic. How to recognize true love? Here are 6 unmistakable signs:
How to recognize true love: 6 signs that don’t deceive
1 / You go the distance
Some even say that it is the ultimate test of all couples! Will your love go the distance? A more or less long separation allows to put things in perspective. The more the world tries to stand in the way of true love, the more it will grow and strengthen. And for all couples who have lived long-distance relationships and who have held up whatever happens, life together once together will seem much easier!
2 / You love yourself for your qualities, but also for your faults
You are mutually aware that the other is not perfect, but it is its imperfections that make it so charming! Because if you plan to last, how do you expect your couple to spend even a decade, if after two weeks, the little fads of your sweetheart already annoy you?
3 / You argue, but you do it well
Yes yes, there are healthy ways to argue! A couple who love each other with real love will no doubt, after some unsuccessful attempts, find an appropriate way to argue. A healthy and balanced relationship is built by two people who know how to argue and listen to each other at the same time! Holding back anger or opinions is not good for you, as it will only delay the explosion. But if you can do it by remaining open to communication. Well done, it is not within the reach of all couples!
4 / You are confident
There is no competition between the two of you, at least no bad competition! Your love is not unilateral, one does not give or receive more than the other. You find comfort and clarity in your respective roles: you are in your place, and you really feel 100% yourself thanks to this relationship.
5 / opposites attract
I don’t mean by that that you can’t love yourself if you look alike, no! But see for yourself. What is the main cause of relationship failures? The difference. It can range from behavior, manias, tastes, interests, etc. So if you learn to see these differences as an asset, and you see your partner as a missing piece of the puzzle of your life, despite your differences, and your differences, then, no doubt that you will be able to walk a long time together!
6 / You only want your darling
Of course, you can find such and such an attractive person, you are human all the same, but there is not an atom of you which wants them. Why? Because they are all too busy loving your partner! You do not spend your time fantasizing about other guys/girls… You were a great seducer but for him/her, you know that you have definitely taken your place? An excellent sign that you have found the right one