When we have time without appointments, it is difficult for us to meet new people, hence here we leave you twenty-one ideal places to locate your new soulmate.
You must be ready to get out of your comfort zone. That includes getting out more, seeing new places, trying new things, and being open to chatting with unknown people to make new friends.
You also have to be realistic about what you are looking for and your hopes. Remember that not in each and every one of the sites you will find a pleasant date. Finding it may take you some time, but in each and every place you will have experiences that will make you thrive as a human.
That said, here we are going to leave you certain places to meet single men:
1. In a pet park
We clarify something for you: if you do not have a pet to go for a walk, DO NOT go to one of these parks. Instead, go to a regular park to exercise.
But if you have a puppy, it is a good excuse to get some exercise, breathe fresh air, and flirt with a single pet owner. Dogs are a great conversation starter.
You can check what is the breed of your dog, how you nourish it, if you have preferred veterinarians. If things are going well, ask her for her number so you can make a date in the park while you walk your pets.
2. Waiting in a queue
Did you know that on average we spend ten years of our lives in a waiting line? Why not take advantage of the time by having a nice boy in front of you and talking to him? Something casual like a graceful girl and a shy smile always and in all circumstances goes.
3. On an airplane
This site is ideal for being friendly with anyone, including men. The trick is to see if he has a wife or children nearby, or if he has a ring on his hand. If not, come closer and also start a casual talk about the flight, the weather, or the city they leave.
If they have connected for sure you will get their phone number or some way to contact them. But if not, don’t worry, at least you will have had a different and enjoyable trip.
4. In the gym
If you are passionate about the fitness planet, the gym is one of the places where you spend the most time. Take advantage of this and meet guys with exactly the same interests. How to do it? With a slow approach.
The first week make only eye contact and smile to show interest, the second week (if he still does not approach you) greet him by chance. In the third week find an excuse to chat with him.
It may be about how to use a machine, an exercise routine, nutrition, etc. You have to be safe and comfortable with the idea that it might not work with this kid and what would you do in such a case. Always and in all circumstances, it is good to have a plan B.
5. On public transport
Another place where you spend significant time in your day is on the bus or train on your way to work/university. So it’s also a great time to meet a kid.
If you see a boy who catches your eye, go over and talk to him casually. If you miss the chance, you might regret it.
What to chat about? About the weather, how full the transport is, ask for some indication to get somewhere … After the talk has started, introduce yourself and keep talking.
6. In cooking classes
It is claimed that food is the way to reach someone’s heart. Each dish is an occasion to chat and have fun.
Cooking classes for singles have grown in trend around the planet and are a great opportunity to meet single men, who if they do not know how to cook at least they will try and have a good talk.
Best of all, being so practical, you will be able to create bonds with ease by getting involved in the preparation of the dishes. Another advantage is that if you don’t know what to talk about, you can focus on the subject of groceries, techniques, or advice.
7. In a language course
As strange as it may seem, the best way to meet a single man ready to start a relationship is by not looking for him. Do something that you are passionate about and if in the process you meet someone you like, enjoy it!
Learning a new language is a great way to exercise your brain and expand your way of seeing things. Besides this, you never know who will be in the class (or who will give them).
If you are shy, this is a good time to loosen up a bit and gain confidence. In these courses, they usually pair students to work on assignments together.
8. At corporate events and networking
Where you meet a man can also determine how successful he is. Attending corporate events has 2 benefits for you:
- You will expand your professional network and maybe find great job opportunities.
- You will meet men who know what they want, are dedicated to their profession and perhaps one of them is your soul mate.
In accordance with scientific research, reputable men who are successful seek stable relationships. So if you want to know where to find a serious partner, this is a great site.
Just consider the following: these types of events tend to be formal and focused on professional interests, so exchanging numbers not always and at all times is homonymous with a romantic interest.
9. In bars and restaurants
In these kinds of places, you need to be independent and confident of yourself, while the best way for a man to approach you is by being alone at the bar.
To feel more comfortable being alone you can chat with the bartender or read a book while having a drink. If there is a man that you liked, come over and try to get a chat out of him.
Break the ice with a funny, comment about what is happening on TV or about the taste of your drink. For your safety, do not admit to going to a private place until you get to know it better.
10. On the beach or pool
The best plan for the summer is to cool off near the water. Take the opportunity to ask a kid you liked to apply sunscreen somewhere you can’t reach. As he does so, you introduce yourself and bring up the topic of conversation.
Take a ball with you and ask a group of guys if they can play. After the game, you can ask out the kid you like and he will not look strange.
11. At tourist sites
These places are ideal if what you want is a summer love or if you are ready to have a long-distance relationship because there is a high possibility that the man you know does not live in the area.
Explore the city in search of tourist sites and visit them as just another tourist. If you see someone you like, come over and tell them how nice the site is to you.
12. At a party
Even if you feel that you are exhausted from your social circle and think that there are no free men for you, do not stop going to their parties. You never know who you can find there. Maybe you meet a friend of a friend of a friend and click.
In case you are shy, ask your friends to assist you by introducing yourself to single men who might be a good fit for you.
13. At sporting events
Mud races, obstacle course challenges, and other active events always and at all times attract men. So if you are in shape and in that kind of activity, why don’t you sign up?
Active men are more likely to be attracted to active women. Don’t be afraid to create some healthy competition. Just before the race or event starts, look at the kid and say something like, ‘Do you think you can beat me? Good luck with that! ”And off you go.
14. In singles bars
Although being under the influence of alcohol is not the ideal situation to meet a man, it could be an alternative for you. The key to going to these kinds of places and getting a kid’s number is to go with friends and monitor your alcohol intake so you don’t get drunk.
You should tell your friends that no matter how much you like a man, they should not let you go with him. It’s a safety measure for you and it’s a way to make them want to contact you when they’re sober to get to know each other better.
15. At festivals
Regardless of the season of the year, always and in all circumstances, you will find some kind of festival in your locality: musicals, food, and drinks, crafts, exhibitions, etc. These events are ideal for having fun, meeting people, and enjoying delicious food while walks around the site.
Are you afraid of not having the right words to approach a man you like? Ask him exactly what position he got (something that catches your attention and is from the festival), after there, you can ask him to accompany you, introduce yourself, and follow the talk naturally.
16. In sports clubs
Almost each and every one of the sports has its club, you just have to look for which one suits you and the requirements they request to enter. If one doesn’t exist, we encourage you to believe it.
Belonging to one of these clubs will not only keep you in shape, but it will also help you make friends with exactly the same interests as you. Maybe you know a man who reciprocates you in love.
17. In the church
If you are a person who loves to go to the temple to connect with your opinions, do not underestimate the higher spiritual power, perhaps it is those forces that led you to that place to meet someone unique.
The good thing about meeting a single man in the church is that you will know that the two of you share exactly the same values and thoughts on life; key in order for any relationship to work in the long term.
If you don’t have a specific temple to go to, find out which ones are in your area and choose one instinctively. It is essential that we clarify that the way to meet people in these kinds of places is by actively participating in each and every one of the events that they organize and not only throughout the liturgy.
18. At a wedding
In any marriage liturgy, we assure you you will find many single men. You just have to make sure you look amazing and have the best attitude to have fun.
In addition, if you are close to certain boyfriends you can do a little research to find out who to approach and who to avoid, or suggest that they sit you next to a handsome and single man who is looking for a relationship.
19. In the bookstore or library
Perhaps you think that these places are not the ideal option to meet single men, but as we have said, it is not about forcing love but rather about bumping into those places that are already your passion.
Men who love to read look for girls who have exactly the same hobby, so go ahead and go to your favorite bookstore or library, order a coffee and sit on the sofa leaving space for someone else to sit down.
20. In mixed sports leagues
This is another sporty way to meet men. From soccer to swimming, there are multiple sports in which men and women are a team.
Playing with the man you are attracted to gives you the opportunity to observe his personality. The best thing is that after each game they can go out to drink or eat to have a more intimate chat.
21. Through the Internet
Technology is here to assist us. From mobile apps to dating sites, there are many ways to locate what you are looking for by age, appearance, career, romantic interests, and hobbies in your future partner.
Best of all, it will give you the practice to chat and write fluently with your potential date. It is a great alternative for those who are starting to date after a long time and need to gain confidence to return to the planet of in-person dating.