One of the most intense stages when we are at the beginning of a new relationship or when we resume an old love is the one in which the messages and calls every day seem to have no end. For what reason do you send me messages each and every day?
1. He obviously likes you!
Pretty obvious, right?… You have this boy at your feet! Not only is he gone for you, but he does not know how to channel all that feeling, because a daily message can seem to many an exaggeration or, on the contrary, a deficient action.
In this case, the best thing you can do is wait for the next message and respond with a proposal. It can be as clear as proposing a formal date or taking a more relaxed approach and simply asking him to the movies.
2. He wants you to know him better by the fact that he loves you as his partner
It also falls into the “likes you” category, but this has a somewhat more calculated motive. A debate is raging in this boy’s psyche: should I ask her to be my girlfriend, ask her out, or should I wait for a sign from him?
This boy is worried about not knowing if you will reject him. It is a fairly understandable fear and you may still be responsible for it. Maybe you are not very affectionate or you show some disinterest in him and those signs tell him that it is not yet the time to move to the next level.
If what you want is to encourage him to go to that level, you can be more interested in answering his messages or send him one on your initiative.
3. You are a priority in his life and he is madly in love with you
This depends a lot on the relationship they have. How much trust do you have in each other? How often do you see each other in person? How long has he not stopped texting you?
If it is an attitude that has continuity in the time they have known each other, it is obvious that you have become one of their daily thoughts. You are a priority in his life and he pays all this attention to you because he does not stop meditating on you.
4. He may not have anything better to do with his time
Simple enough and very demotivating if you like this guy a lot, but maybe he’s just a listless guy with too much extra time.
You can identify if this is the reason why he is sending you messages by two signals:
– He stops sending you messages when he has something better to do.
– Your messages are vague and do not reflect a genuine interest in knowing more about you.
5. It can be a passing attitude
To answer the question “for what reason do you send me messages each and every day?”, We must first limit “every day.” Precisely how long has he been “texting you” on a daily basis? Perhaps this romantic gesture is just the product of a fleeting attraction or boredom.
If only two days have passed since the moment this attitude began, it is convenient that you wait a while to discover how many days the interest continues. If it’s something that doesn’t last long, this is surely the case.
6. It is possible that he thinks that if he sends you more messages, it is easier to achieve what he wants
Many men (and women) have the idea that “texting” another person over the course of certain days can make them fall faster on the “net.”
If this is the case, it is clearly a passing interest that they want to satisfy at your expense. Perhaps he is interested in a short and intense relationship and since he did not perceive that you were looking for the same, now he tries to persuade you with another strategy.
You can easily identify this situation with the content of their messages. If he is constantly making unseemly proposals or flattering you over the top, he may just be looking for a speedy pickup.
What does it mean if a man texts you?
The meaning of this action will depend on the content of such messages. Instead of asking yourself “why is he texting me each and every day?” Ask yourself, “what are all these messages about?”
Men tend to be somewhat more transparent about their thoughts than women, so their messages can be easier to decipher.
To summarize, these 2 may be the meanings of your interest:
1. He wants to know about your life
If he asks about your day, how your work went, or if you got home safely, it will be clear that he is interested in you honestly and disinterestedly. He wants to know about you and that you share a bit of your life with him.
2. He wants to talk about himself
If he “texts” you to request favors and just talk about his inconveniences, he may be looking for free therapy or a person to unburden himself with.
It is not totally a bad motivation to “text you”, but clearly it is not that romantic (or it is not completely).