Reason # 1: The Girls You Meet Are Not “Compatible” With You
(or then: it is you who are not compatible with them)
- Either because you are too different
=> after a few days/weeks, she realizes that you live in different universes, that you have too different a vision of the world, too different characters, that you have different expectations, a degree of maturity or a culture that is too different, and that you’re basically not following parallel paths.
In this case, sensing the impasse coming, she takes the initiative and prefers to end your relationship.
A priori, rather an intelligent initiative on his part (because spending too much time with a person who is not compatible with you is wasting your time AND hers).
- Either because it is not really available to you
Typically: you want to ask yourself, and she wants to enjoy her youth, have fun, and accumulate experiences, and she has a feeling that a relationship with you will be blocking her aspirations.
Or is she still stuck on her ex, or some ghost, the memory of a more or less present type, who still haunts her?
Or, she hesitates between you and another guy (s), and she’s having a hard time making up her mind, and ideally, she would like 2/3 at a time?
=> In any case, you are obviously not the number 1 in her head (or in her panties).
If you don’t think you can accept a different kind of relationship than you wanted, it’s dead.
(remember that there are many different types of relationships )
(Also remember that just because a girl doesn’t want you / doesn’t give you what you want, or that she’s having fun with others, doesn’t mean that she’s a bad person: grow up my old)
- Either because not stable
Some people are ruled by a kind of an inner mess, which makes it difficult for them to hang out with someone for long: these people change their minds like their shirts, have trouble fixing their attention for a long time, even managing their desires and emotions.
And suddenly, concerning you, she moved on, because she saw a new shiny object pass, or because her attention is fixed on something else.
Well. With these kind of unstable (and often, not very mature, and a little selfish) girls, not much to hope for. Ultimately, it’s best to limit the damage before you’ve hurt your self-esteem too much.