Men and women react differently to a sentimental hurt. If Madame tends to openly express her grief and cry without hiding all the tears in her body, the gentleman plays hard and takes refuge in his bubble to avoid showing his weakness and his pain. But when the mask falls, we discover a fragile being who tries as best he can to heal his wounds.
HOW TO REACT IN FRONT OF A MAN WOUNDED BY A WOMAN WHO SUFFERS IN SILENCE?
Many factors can be at the origin of the injury of a man but it is still the rupture and the betrayal – which can take the features of infidelity – which constitute for him the most troubling situations.
When a man’s pride is trampled on, his suffering reaches such a point that he can become terribly obnoxious, even though he seems to be putting up with the setback well, even if he doesn’t complain, even though no expression on his face. does not betray its decrepitude.
A man hurt by his wife feels humiliated and humiliation is a feeling he does not tolerate. He has difficulty recovering from it and if he decides despite everything not to break up his relationship, his anger can take a long time to fade and his resentment never completely fades.
And sometimes, to give change to the woman who disappointed him, he won’t hesitate to slam the door without warning. For a man, pride really comes together at all times.
WHAT BEHAVIOR TO ADOPT IN FRONT OF A MAN WHO HAS BEEN HURT?
Arm yourself with patience, simply let it flow.
If he chose despite his sorrow to continue his journey with you, know that your relationship will never be the same again, he will no longer easily place his trust in you and will reveal his feelings to you in a dropper.
He will tend to keep his distance and even flee if he smells hot soup again so as not to fall into the same trap.
Over time, you may be able to pick up the mess, but you will need to take a low-key, gentle approach to calm the storm that still rages in her head and heart.
We must avoid rushing him and give him time to put some order in his life.
In the event, however, that he has decided to leave you permanently, then there is no point in forcing his hand. He might come back for the sole purpose of getting you to foot the bill.
It is wiser to surrender and go your separate ways rather than tear yourself apart.
Admittedly, it is often more pride than love that upsets a man’s heart and sometimes leads him to despair when confronted with a sentimental story that goes wrong.
In this, he is very different from his companion who experiences emotions and romantic failures in a very different way.
Now that you know how to deal with a man hurt by a woman, be patient!